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ah, an unexpected “love poem” on my desktop

Thursday, November 17th, 2005

I love you! 🙂
*snuggles*
[His name for me] is the sweetest thing
that ever existed in this dream.
Under the stars we shout and sing
undying love is this theme.

– [my name for him] 🙂

… this. is. love…

Review: Tantric Sex Workshop — L Becker on sex, love, and oneness

Thursday, November 17th, 2005

Tantra Workshops
An Evening of Tantra (Introduction)

My husband and I attended this workshop tonight (I always wanted to go). It was an “eye opener” and also expanded my comfort zone. My husband learned from it immensely (techniques and such) and quite enjoyed it (the spiritual and intimacy part) but I was in a “shy moment” shy=lack of self-confidence and feeling insecure and so I had a hard time with “exposing” myself to strangers. I don’t have a hard time doing that with my partner when we are alone but with a group it was difficult. It was even difficult to expose myself to my partner in the group but I did have a moment where I felt like we were connecting from a very deep place and it *was* beautiful.

At one point we exchanged partners and had long gazes into the eyes of strangers and honoured the divine in them and vice versa — namaste. In fact, it was truly a discomforting feeling but I was also humbled too. I actually felt like we had known each other in a past life or something — which if one believes in “oneness” we would indeed have already known the person. And of course, there were tears from many in the room. My partner had a way with bringing all the ladies to tears and wholeness. He just has such a gentle and accepting spirit and a powerful physical healing presence. *smile*

And while it was somewhat difficult to know he was “connecting” with strange women, I was also happy they could share a moment in time with such a special man. To that note, it surprised me when we were all introducing ourselves and were asked to say how we felt and my baby said, “I feel lucky that I am with her <---pointing to me". *big smile* Although he was perfectly happy interacting with strangers, I had a harder time at it and felt that singles might really enjoy this "connecting" experience, especially after a break-up of sorts because there was a lot of "love, hugs, and kindness" to go around and during a painful break-up one does need a lot of hugs and love -- especially from strangers (massage therapists, workshop participants, etc..) . :-) Basically my guy got a lot out of the experience and this gave me much happiness. If we are able to afford the full workshop, he would really like to do it and I would really like to do it with him... even if it means expanding my comfort zone. And to think that I was the one who suggested we go! Oh, and I learned that my baby can go from low energy to very high energy by just doing some breathing and movement excercises -- that was "very interesting" to find out. Learn something new everyday. *grin* And another side benefit for my honey is he felt "connected" to strangers again. He's a Pisces and the "outer" world doesn't seem to be for Pisces males. So it was nice to see him being him -- which is helpful, caring, and open. Something he often can't be in this silly world of ours. Yeah, though uncomfortable there is an undeniable *glow* that we both received after the workshop. My partner gives the class a "6" out of 5 and I give it a 4 out of 5 just because I didn't like (though it was good for me) interacting with the rest of the class on a "group" level -- I'm not much good with group interaction though my partner is. :-)

Psychic or Charlatan?: How to Interpret a Psychic Reading

Tuesday, November 15th, 2005

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19 Rules from the Psychic Reading Handbook

Rule 1
Identify the nagging feeling before you have a psychic reading.

Rule 2
Psychic advice should always be directed at empowering the individual to make decisions for her or himself.

Rule 3
We create by accepting doctrine or personal responsibility.

Rule 4
When you receive a prediction decide what you will do about it then keep living.

Rule 5
Psychic advice should always have a relevant pragmatic application in a person’s daily life to satisfy personal needs whether they be physical or non-physical.

Rule 6
If you are wanting something to happen so much that you are not willing to listen or accept the psychic information, don’t ask for a psychic reading.

Rule 7
A practising psychic should be able to communicate directly with non-physical phenomena without the need for physical props.

Rule 8
When addressing a psychic reading be analytical not subjective.

Rule 9
If you feel uncomfortable with the psychic or the methods used, chose someone else.

Rule 10
Let your intuition make the final choice in choosing the most suitable psychic for you.

Rule 11
At the reading know why you aer there and reamin focussed on your stated objectives.

Rule 12
Acknowledge the prediction and then do nothing about it until you understand yourself in relation to the prediction.

Rule 13
When preparing for a reading understand yourself.

Rule 14
Ask for the psychic’s definition of key words and phrases.

Rule 15
Verify, verify, verify and then verify some more.

Rule 16
Patience is more tha na virtue; it is necessary in the growing process.

Rule 17
Just because a psychic says so doesn’t change a thing.

Rule 18
Always look at the broader scope of the reading.

Rule 19
Treat predictions ambivalently unless you can do something to avoid a catastrophe.

Readings Went Well

Monday, November 14th, 2005

Just got back from doing the readings. They seemed to go well and I told them things that I possibly couldn’t have known. The “oh my God’s” were many. lol The most important thing to me though is that people get what they need to move forward in their life. And I guess the higher spirit wants me to “wow” them so that I sound credible when I tell them things they didn’t know but “need” to know.

Next appointment up tomorrow night — I look forward to it though I hope I’m still nervous. Nervousness, I think, is a good thing! Cockiness usually means “trouble”.

Thank YOU for blessing me with the gift to tell people what they need to know.