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January 5th, 2012

My Mission

I’m here to help you in any way I can. I use all my knowledge, experience, education, skills, and passion to empower and encourage as well as help you see new sides to a situation.

I’m here to help you find YOUR path, YOUR wisdom.

I do this through offering psychic coaching, pragmatic decision making, spiritual therapy, and logical consultations.

I use astrology, tarot, numerology, and psychic impressions to gain hidden information. I bring information to the surface for you to look at.

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A How-to Guide for Self-Tarot Reading

June 13th, 2011

Read Tarot Cards For Yourself

TarotSeek™ – A revolutionary unbiased and objective self-tarot reading system.
Author: Psychic Jucy

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If you’re seeking an innovative, objective, unbiased, and successful approach to self-tarot reading, whether you are a novice or a professional, this guide is for you. However this guide is NOT a long-winded book about what the cards mean, layouts, history, mythos, or the magic of tarot.

This guide is for you if you don’t have the time or desire to spend hours, days, and months learning how to read tarot for yourself. And it’s not for you, if you’re seeking a ‘complete how-to tarot book’ that takes some time to get through. There are plenty of these wonderful books already available. Who needs another one?

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Limerance, Getting Over a Break-up, How to Get Over Breaking Up, How to Heal From a Broken Heart

April 15th, 2011
In my practice and on a regular basis I’m exposed to lovers remorse, lovers shunned, and just plain unhappy lovers. I’m no stranger to the joys and scars that loving someone can produce.
It’s my focus and joy to help clients see what happened, what is happening, and what will happen based on the current situation.
While this article is focused on limerant behaviour, the major cause for it and most importantly how to get over a fixation or misplaced love for another person, it may also be useful for anyone trying to get over someone.


Limerance, defined by Wiki.

After consulting many clients and reflecting on personal experiences it’s been found the tension of ambiguity and hope causes, develops, and sustains limerence after the LO (Love Object also referenced here as love interest) has injected some sort of “sparkle” into your life. If there’s a sense that a perpetuating false or half-hearted involvement is occurring (unrequited limerence) and your love interest or yourself is confronted about that (so your connection may be seen for what it truly is) the healing process can begin.

Here’s what to do to help you get over being limerant, a break-up, heartbreak, connection:

  1. Deeply analyze what you are or were getting out of the connection. Whether you hash this out with your love interest; a traditional therapist; psychic coach or counselor (like myself); a close, sympathetic, and understanding friend; forum or online community group such as Tribe, etc. make sure you do it. Why? Once clarity is found, the past can be cleared, closure can be gained, forward movement with open energy can begin, and a strategy not to repeat what doesn’t work and to ignite energy into what can. Write out all your questions… all your Why’s… and then set about getting them answered to your satisfaction.
  2. Cut-off all ties or at the very least diminish involvement or exposure to your LO, as difficult as that is. Basically invoke the no contact rule. Don’t visit your LO’s page on social media sites such as Facebook, MySpace, or LiveJournal or don’t visit the site at all if it’s hard not to. Don’t check your personal email, for a few days at a time to a week, if they happen to keep contacting you. Remove their number from your phone (you can place their number elsewhere). etc… This is an exercise in self-discipline and will give the added benefit of knowing you accomplished something difficult, when successful.
  3. Would you be friends if you didn’t, couldn’t sleep with them? Would you want to just hang out and not be romantic or touchy at all? If you can say yes, they are a keeper. If not, it’s time to cut the ties permanently. Even if you can say yes, it’s still time to cut ties temporarily until you can reset, rebalance, and compose yourself. However, keep in mind an LO can say or do things that will spin your world upside down no matter how much distance has taken place. In these cases, sometimes it’s just best to find that deep and intense connection elsewhere.
  4. Don’t put any stock in what you see or hear unless it’s something solid and clear. Otherwise, view it as a quirk of theirs and that they just have no ability to be direct, forthright, and honest with you as they are emotionally unavailable.
  5. If there’s anything that connects you to your love interest that you can not stop doing or having, change the connection or association. You will need to do this consciously. Start adding new meaning to an activity, object, etc. that is NOT connected to your LO. Remove or hide anything vaguely related to them. Out of sight gets you to out of mind.
  6. Take a good hard look at their flaws. I know this is hard to do. A lot of my clients, when asked: What are their flaws? well, they can’t see any at first. :/ I know this is hard to do but if you don’t allow yourself to do it, it’s not going to help. If you need an objective listener and questioner to help you see the flaws, call me. If you find your self-esteem is low and needs a boost, call me.
  7. What Lessons Learned were learned? What did you learn about yourself? List the good, the bad, and the ugly. After all the hurt and pain, what do you resolve to repeat or NOT repeat going forward? What did you find were your strengths? What were your challenges? My friend J.G. reminded me to remind you to remember your value and worth, that the love and strengths brought to any connection can be carried over to a new connection / relationship.
  8. I have asked this question to limerent people and I always get quite a lame response: What do you love about your LO? If you are saying: I don’t know or It’s just something about them or something else that has nothing to do with qualities of that person you (or anyone else) would love separate and distinct from your connection to them; you do NOT love them. You do NOT see them for who they are.
  9. Read stories about other limerants, those who have broken up, breaking up, get community help and be involved in helping other people deal with their broken hearts and minds. It helps to know you are not alone, not crazy, and it may give more clues to what happened, what is happening, and what will happen when all is said and done. It also helps to keep reading other people’s stories especially when you are cycling back into a fantasy or hope for the relationship to be more than what it is which is, to be blunt, nothing.

This is what to do to bring life back into your world:

  1. Continue to improve yourself (a side benefit of limerance) but also begin accomplishing some of your other dreams and desires that may have been dependent upon your LO reciprocating your love. Basically “get-on” with your life.
  2. Don’t waste your day thinking about tomorrow. Plans made today about tomorrow can then be worked today. Focus on TODAY! Thinking about a future that is out of one’s control causes anxiety. So unless a plan is being made for tomorrow, barring positive visualization and preparation tasks, just enjoy every moment, today — as it comes.
  3. Set new goals and create new projects. Perhaps it’s cleaning out your closet, organizing some paperwork, putting together an educational application, etc.
  4. What was missing in your life before your love interest entered and more importantly how can you get that back from something else, someone else and in a constructive way.
  5. Meet new people. Yup, I know. There’s no one better than your LO. It’s going to be hard but just force yourself to meet new people and learn to accept that very few people are going to give you that high. Then again, very few people are going to give you that low either. That’s a good thing! Or how about hooking up with old friends before all this crap came crashing down upon you.
  6. Which brings me to spirituality, faith, and religion. Turn to it. Buddhism is a great place if you are not sure where to go. Philosophically or otherwise, for a lot of people, it encourages a sense of peace and non-attachment. It’s very Pisces in many ways. Dealing with concepts such as acceptance, compassion, and letting go.
  7. Work out. Eat well. Sleep. Take Your Vitamins. Plans things to do the night before so when you wake, you know what to do.
  8. Keep yourself busy. Put together pampering days for yourself. Book a massage, spa day, or mini hotel getaway with swimming pool.
  9. Fake it till you make it. So you are still pining over Mr. or Ms. Wonderful. Just keep telling yourself they aren’t and you aren’t. Eventually it will take. 😉

Is there something wrong with me?

What I want you all to know is that a) you are NOT crazy or sick b) your LO is / was probably doing or saying something that is / was consciously or subconsciously ambiguous, undefined and giving you some sense of hope that your interest is being / would be reciprocated. c) Yes, in some way, they DO like the attention. However, do understand it comes from a place of self-interest or selfishness. Your needs are not generally thought of.

Where do I go from here?

It will take some time to move forward; however, you must WANT to. As can be read from various personal stories (see links below), some limerant people just have the nature to be limerant and quite enjoy the high and rush that comes along with it. Some like not doing anything about it due to fear of having to take responsibility for their lives again: What’s next? However, this shows a lack in their life and they can gain pleasure and a game plan by other healthy and constructive means with a dose of soul searching. All the best and if you need a helpful ear, 🙂

I have also found stories, articles, blog posts from BaggageReclaim useful for spotting and dealing with problematic and toxic people: Example — How to Spot an Emotionally Unavailable Man –> Scroll down to the bottom for blog comments.

Further Learning

Links on Limerance

Videos — #1 #2
Wiki —
Article on the Power of Love & Limerance —

12 points of “What is Limerance” and How to get over it:
Is it possible to overcome limerant feelings yet remain close friends?:

Personal Stories about Limerance:
Top 1000 Reasons we Hate Limerance:

More on Love & Limerance

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(Numerology) What does 11.11.11 ~ 11-11-11 ~ Eleven, Eleven, Eleven ~ November 11, 2011 mean?

November 6th, 2011

People are fascinated with repeating numbers such as 11, 11, 11 as there’s a sense that some added power manifests; they would be right. In numerology, numbers have significance. Lets take a look at the meaning the number eleven has and how this date affects the world, in general, and the people, as a whole.

Keywords: Visionary, Perceptions, Foresight, Teacher, Educator, Speaking, Motivational Speaking and Preaching, Advertisers, Fanaticism Inspirational writing, Martyr, Justice, Integrity, The higher mind, Divinity, Healer, Healing, Choosing the High road, Wisdom, Light workers, Charitable. Devoted, Idealistic, Optimism, Spiritual Guru, Dharma, Luck, Heavenly downloads, The Higher Mind, Volunteerism, Being inspired, We are all one, Advanced education, Initiating independence, Empowerment, Excellence, Divine Will, The Word of God, Logos, Truth Seeker, Electrical light, Purposeful, Magic, Opinions, Dreamer, Knowing, Sacrificial, Bringer of Hope, Zealousness, Altruistic, Independence, Public service leaders, Non-profit, Not-for-profit, Spirit to Mind, Selflessness, Illumination, Enlightenment, An old soul, Pure spirit, The Angelic realm, Being “on”, Turned “on”, Fire-energy.


Stuff about the Number Eleven / 11, 11-11-11, November 11, 2001, and Numerology

As we get closer to the year 2012, the desire of those that follow the Gregorian calendar is that of initiating spiritual enlightenment on this date — either consciously or subconsciously. The people are ready to have a higher mind, to live a higher purpose, to help others even if they don’t get a direct return, to learn of, see, and speak the truth. They want justice and others to act in integrity. In this pursuit, people are willing to sacrifice their stability in a fanatical and overzealous way that could cause the sudden downfall of old foundations.

  • When numbers are experienced as a date, anyone who connects to that calendar’s energy will connect to the vibration it’s giving out. So if a country or culture follows another calendar, with another dating system, they are not likely to experience the vibrations of those numbers though if that country or culture is connected to those that do, they can be affected by that.
  • The whole date of November 11, 2011 adds up to an EIGHT.
  • Eleven is considered a master number. A master number resonates on a higher spiritual wave.
  • Have you ever suddenly looked at your clock and saw it was exactly 11:11 ? That means that you were connecting to a higher spiritual vibration at that time. A message is being delivered to you through the angelic realm, possibly from your own internal spiritual realm. Stop for a moment, next time that happens. Ask yourself: What message am I to receive? Receive it.
  • Some keywords include: visionary, inspirational, inspiring, spirituality, the higher mind, volunteerism, heavenly messages, optimism, education, insights, motivational, uplifting.
  • In numerology, numbers get reduced; however, master numbers are never reduced in calculations. Calculating 11 + 11 _ 2 + 11, we arrive at the number 35 which adds to an 8. While the numbers are 11, this will be an 8 day with 11 themes and energy. Interestingly, Edgar Cayce’s life path is a 35/8 and embodies the spirit of the number 11.
  • In it’s lower vibration, 2 — some meanings include: co-operation, balance, harmony, negotiation, and fairness.
  • As we get closer to the year, 2012, the desire of those that follow the Gregorian calendar is that of spiritual enlightenment. The people are ready to have a higher mind, to live for a higher purpose, to help others even if they don’t get a direct return, to see and speak the truth. They want justice and others to act, in integrity. In this pursuit, people are willing to sacrifice their stability in a fanatical and overzealous way

Current World Events

November 11, 2011 represents the dawning of a new time, a new way of life, a new way of seeing things in an exceptionally forceful way.

  • The collapse of the economy and current banking practice
  • Proposed censorship of the Internet, lobbied by music and movie organizations
  • OWS — Occupy Wall Street
  • A World Revolution
  • Ousting leaders of government, banking, & corporation


Possible Predictions

  • This day (total date adds up to number eight) will reflect freedom as it relates to power, wealth, health, business, resources, respect, authority, management, success, ruthlessness, leaders, strength, will, organization, control, money, matter, breath, etc. with the themes and energy of the number eleven.
  • World wealth is likely to see a change, for the better. Dow Jones could see a rise. The economy could bounce back having weathered recent storms.
  • A marked change or display in civil disobedience and diplomacy
  • Frustrations around difficulty in manifesting financial peace, initiating powerful inspiration and vision.
  • Exciting, and sudden spiritual and humanitarian changes are likely.
  • World leaders coming together to discuss world issues or beginning talks about plans to implement 8 type themes (see above)
  • Justice and judgement are likely to be made. This causes many to feel elated and successful.
  • Initiating, and manifesting spiritual business and wellness.


Check out your numbers

This is an excerpt from my Life Path Numerology Generator as it relates to the number 8 and one’s path forward:

Life Path :: Business Leader / Physical Distribution (8)

Your core self includes your major challenge or karmic lesson, desire, gift, knowledge, life path, and destiny.Today, the way to your life path, mission, or purpose is shown; however, in a live reading session I analyze and intuit all different aspects of your core self into one complete picture to give you a powerful reading that gives deeper insight into your personality, career interests, relationship opportunities, challenges, and so forth.

A life path, mission, or purpose is something a lot of people try to define for themselves. The funny thing is that it’s right before your eyes, nothing earth shattering and something you are always drawn to do. In fact, you may find yourself having a hard time achieving success working through your path but that’s part of the process of life, death, and being reborn (should you choose to believe in reincarnation).

Also your major challenge or karmic lesson, desire, gift, knowledge, life path, and destiny together makes a difference in where and how you work and live. Therefore, your life path may express itself in a slightly different way than what it says below. In addition, an inability to harmonize strengths and challenges can keep one away from their path. Please keep all these points in mind while reading and question yourself thoroughly.

Your life purpose is power, wealth, and health. You have the ability to manage resources quite well and because of this you are likely to run your own business, be the boss, and make lots of money!! In fact a spa, chiropractic clinic, or a health food business healing the body might really interest you as well but that all depends on the rest of your core personality and if you are still trying to find your way, let me assist you!

Some keywords: money, money, money!, body, health, energy, homeopathy, power, control, dominance, resources, planner, strategist, retail, auctions, budgets, sensuous, shopping, wealth, work, masculine, yang, Andrew Weil, natural foods, workaholic, fine dining, luxuriousness, distribution, owner, challenging, small business, big business, investments, CEO, executive, diet & exercise, Donald Trump, entrepreneur, lawyer, cosmetician, people manager, stockbroker, director, doctor, founder, director, loan shark, physical therapist (massage, physio, etc.), project manager.

Connects with the energy of Sun signs: Capricorn, Taurus, & Leo and the Elements: Earth & Fire

For number 11, it is Your life purpose is vision & enlightenment. As a rare individual you have the ability to see things many others do not and this leads to open many doors to new experiences.


Taken from my Gift Numerology Generator for the number eleven as it relates to a gift or strength that one possesses:

Gift :: Inspirational Visionary (11)

Your core self includes your major challenge or karmic lesson, desire, gift, knowledge, life path, and destiny.Today, the way to your gift is shown; however, in a live reading session I analyze and intuit all different aspects of your core self into one complete picture to give you a powerful reading that gives deeper insight into your personality, career interests, relationship opportunities, challenges, and so forth.

This free on-line reading has a lot of limitations and is not to be considered the whole of your self but rather a part of the whole.Your major gift is easy and comes naturally to you and everyone sees it plain and clear that that is what you are good at even if it isn’t acknowledged.

The following is not your only gift but is the main one which everyone would recognize within you.Also your major challenge or karmic lesson, desire, gift, knowledge, life path, and destiny together makes a difference in where and how you work and live. Therefore, your gift may express itself in a slightly different way than what it says below. In addition, self-esteem and other issues may be a factor as to whether you decide to suppress or use your gift. Please keep all these points in mind while reading and question yourself thoroughly.

When you are at your best you inspire, uplift, educate, and motivate others to move beyond surface reality. Naturally you are gifted at understanding the spiritual energies of people, places, and things.You help individuals all over the world take action and achieve their potential. However, if in the land of the darkness you may find yourself floating and not knowing quite how to use your gift to good ends. You may also use the lower vibrations of your gift by coaching, consulting, and counseling locally. This usually arises out of desire not to assert yourself forward. If this is the case, be cognizant that if you take the first step, you help others place their foot first too.

Some keywords: principal, photographer, teacher, inspiration, educating, volunteering, missionary, graphic designer, advertiser, spiritual guru, brand developer, individuals helping other individuals, Habitat for Humanity, Deepak Chopra, Steven Covey, Naomi Wolf.

Connects with the energy of Sun signs: ALL with brightest being Sagittarius, Gemini, Aquarius, Leo, Pisces, Virgo and Elements: Earth, Fire, Water, & Air

For number 8, it’s When at your best you understand and use mass (body, money, resources, skin, objects, and people) like no one else’s business. In fact, you probably run your own business or at the very least run someone else’s. Your motto is power, wealth, and health and your energy is unstoppable. Naturally you are gifted at anything to do with money, control & distribution, and/or the body. This can manifest in anything to do with business, industry, or physical health and breath. However, if in the land of darkness dominance, deceit, greed, and unethical practices can manifest and these unfriendly decisions can lead to the downfall of yourself and others. In this case, be cognizant that your ability to move mass can backfire if you do not consider the feelings, impressions, and thoughts of other people. (mass is weird)

Check out your numbers

About Abella Arthur, Numerologist & Numerology

Abella is considered a Numerologist because she studies and practices the art of numbers as related to prediction and how your life is affected by numbers. The way we love, work, and our purpose on this planet (amongst other things) can be found in numbers.

She has a natural affinity for numbers — how they look, the shape, what it’s saying to us esoterically.

Dates. Dates have a prominent importance in our life because they consist of numbers. And numbers, the universe, and everything living (which is essentially everything) has numerical vibrations.

Pythagoras, the Philosopher, Mathematician, Numerologist, Astronomer, Teacher and Musician (inspired by Egyptian God, Thoth — it appears), learned the powers of numbers while traveling to areas such as Egypt and Hindustan. For 22 years he learned from the Rabbis about the secret traditions of Moses as well as the Egyptian priests of Thebes, the Phoenicians, Syrians, and the Greek philosophers. In fact he came up with the term philosophy, Sophia, which means the love of wisdom.

There are many forms of numerology practiced: western, eastern, geomatria, etc. Abella practices an Eastern method shared with her by a friend who received that teaching from a guru.

She can be contacted for interviews about the date of November 11, 2011, 11/11/11, 11-11-11

Inspired? ©redit.

© Abella Arthur


* Note:

It wouldn’t feel right if I didn’t factor in astrology…
I’ll be following up this post with The Astrology of 11-11-11 over the next few days so come back for another visit! 8)

And do share and credit, if you were inspired or liked my post.

Reference List: Date 11/11/11, Date 111111, Date 11/11/2011, Date 11-11-11, Date 11 11 11. Time 11:11 Reference List: Metaphysics, Paranormal, Fate, Destiny, Random Chance, a Higher Power.

Reference List: Prediction, Predictions ~ Abella Jucy Arthur, Toronto, Ontario, Canada — News Story – 647-895-4233 — Numerologist, Numerology