He is more likely to be bi-sexual than being completely gay — meaning he *does* like the company of women. He is unconventional in his sexual interests OR his openness to sexuality but he’s very traditional in his thoughts about who wears the “pants” in the relationship — him.
I also don’t think he’s homophobic. I do believe he is/has been in the past fiercely private and despises untruths and that’s what motivates him to “stop the presses”. However Katie is actually helping taking the “edge” off of him. She’s a fun bunny and Tom really doesn’t have to fear anything when he’s with her.
Of course, I’m not homophobic and couldn’t care less what his sexuality is. Again, the Tarot and messages received say his relationship with Katie is real and ever-lasting!
In fact it’s a perfect relationship — a twinning! In his previous relationships he wasn’t able to be the traditional man who wore the pants but this time he gets too and that releases him from passive-aggressive behaviours from his past.
As far as making the list… yes he did! He was looking for a balanced relationship with a woman of mystery/intuition and someone who wasn’t Hollywood star focused. He took a risk (looking foolish) to find true love.
But is it odd to make a list of people you want to date or have ever lasting love? I don’t think so. Some families in certain cultures do it all the time. They think about prospects for their child and test them out. It’s called arranged marriages and while it doesn’t work for everyone, it does work for some.
Kudo’s for Tom finally realizing what he needed in his life, going after it, and finally getting it!
